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Each SH Parent Resource Center article is written by an experienced educator and family therapist and provides research-informed guidance grounded in practical classroom experience and a family-systems perspective. The resources are designed to help families better understand school challenges, learning habits, behavior, communication, and emotional development while providing realistic strategies that can be used at home and in partnership with schools.
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Technology, Screens & Social Pressure
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Cyberbullying: What Parents Should Notice, Ask, and Do Early
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Cyberbullying can happen through texts, social media, gaming platforms, group chats, email, or other digital spaces. Parents may not see the harmful content directly, so changes around device use and social behavior can be important clues. StopBullying.gov lists warning signs such as sudden increases or decreases in device use, strong emotional reactions to what happens on a device, hiding screens, shutting down or creating accounts, avoiding social situations, or becoming withdrawn.
Research Basis
Supported by guidance and research from U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, StopBullying.gov and American Academy of Pediatrics.
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Ten-Minute Cyberbullying Early-Response Plan. Use this page for concerning online behavior. The goal is to listen, preserve evidence, and choose a safe next step.
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Helping Children Manage Device Distractions
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A child who keeps checking a phone, game, message, or video during schoolwork may not need another lecture about self-control. Digital devices are built to compete for attention, and the environment can make concentration either easier or harder. Start by changing the setup before expecting the child to resist every interruption.
Research Basis
Supported by guidance and research from the American Academy of Pediatrics, including HealthyChildren.org.
Included Activity
Ten-Minute Distraction-Proof Device Setup. Use this page to change the environment before the work begins, then let your child practice managing the device independently.
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Screen Time and Homework: Finding a Better Balance
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Screen time and homework are no longer separate parts of family life. Many assignments require a laptop, tablet, video, or online platform, so the useful question is not simply, “How many hours of screen time?” The better question is whether media is supporting the task or competing with it.
Research Basis
Supported by guidance and research from the American Academy of Pediatrics, including HealthyChildren.org.
Included Activity
Ten-Minute Homework Screen Plan. Use this page before homework to decide which technology is needed, what should be removed, and when entertainment media can return.
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Social Pressure, Comparison, and Emotional Well-Being
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Children and teens compare themselves with other people long before they use social media, but digital platforms can make comparison constant. A child may compare appearance, friendships, popularity, possessions, grades, athletic ability, or the number of likes and comments a post receives. The important question is not whether comparison ever happens; it is what the comparison is doing to the child.
Research Basis
Supported by guidance and research from U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Office of the Surgeon General, American Psychological Association, and American Academy of Pediatrics.
Included Activity
Ten-Minute Social Comparison Check-In. Use this page to help your child notice how online comparison affects mood and choose one practical response without turning the conversation into a lecture.
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Talking With Your Child About Social Media Stress
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Parents often wait to talk about social media until something goes wrong. A more useful pattern is to talk early and often, when no one is already angry. Social media stress can involve friendship conflict, exclusion, pressure to respond immediately, embarrassing posts, rumors, comparison, unwanted contact, or simply feeling unable to disconnect.
Research Basis
Supported by guidance and research from American Academy of Pediatrics, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Office of the Surgeon General, and American Psychological Association.
Included Activity
Ten-Minute Social Media Stress Conversation. Use this page for one calm conversation. The goal is to understand the stress first, then decide together whether listening, problem-solving, or adult action is needed.
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